The Dumbass Trifecta
First, let’s get one thing straight. I call this The Dumbass Trifecta because I’m very hard on myself. If I engage in this behavior – in any element of it – I’m being a dumbass. I don’t care what you...
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One of the fundamental dynamics of any romantic relationship is this: Where responsibility is uncoupled from control, nothing but mischief can happen. In other words, if you want to exert control over...
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The notion that human beings must be of one mind is ridiculous. We are meaty chaotic systems. The fact that we even make decisions indicates that on several levels we compare and contrast different...
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Someone asked me if I had any advice for people who might be just starting out on a path that included multiple adult partners. Who knew? So, I gave it a go. Treat people as you would want to be...
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“She knew the deal when she signed up.” You know how sometimes people in multipartner relationships say “Well, this person agreed to that kind of relationship dynamic when they signed on, so they have...
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Imagineering Priorities
Dear newswires and news agencies and news sites world-wide. I’ve noticed that every single news article regarding the polio vaccine is accompanied by a crying child whose mouth is being held or grabbed...
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The insignificance of humanity’s responsibility for global climate changes is stressed by people (and their fans) who stand a chance to lose hard cash in cleanup efforts vis-à-vis global climate...
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A lot of people yearn for the days of their childhood. I think of years of being essentially powerless, having no ability to decide or control my fate, to being talked-down to by adults, to having my...
View ArticleThe Dumbass Trifecta
First, let’s get one thing straight. I call this The Dumbass Trifecta because I’m very hard on myself. If I engage in this behavior – in any element of it – I’m being a dumbass. I don’t care what you...
View ArticleWith great power…
One of the fundamental dynamics of any romantic relationship is this: Where responsibility is uncoupled from control, nothing but mischief can happen. In other words, if you want to exert control over...
View ArticleSecond Guessing — it’s like punching yourself in the face.
The notion that human beings must be of one mind is ridiculous. We are meaty chaotic systems. The fact that we even make decisions indicates that on several levels we compare and contrast different...
View ArticleStep one…
Someone asked me if I had any advice for people who might be just starting out on a path that included multiple adult partners. Who knew? So, I gave it a go. Treat people as you would want to be...
View ArticleTat
“She knew the deal when she signed up.” You know how sometimes people in multipartner relationships say “Well, this person agreed to that kind of relationship dynamic when they signed on, so they have...
View ArticleImagineering Priorities
Dear newswires and news agencies and news sites world-wide. I’ve noticed that every single news article regarding the polio vaccine (or any other vaccine) is accompanied by a crying child who is being...
View ArticleMoving forward kinda rocks!
A lot of people yearn for the days of their childhood. I think of years of being essentially powerless, having no ability to decide or control my fate, to being talked-down to by adults, to having my...
View ArticleA Variation on a Theme
With Spider-Man, everyone knows “With great power comes great responsibility,” but maybe that’s good to start out, good for kids. What I would like to see is something more along the lines of “With...
View ArticleThe Dumbass Trifecta
First, let’s get one thing straight. I call this The Dumbass Trifecta because I’m very hard on myself. If I engage in this behavior – in any element of it – I’m being a dumbass. I don’t care what you...
View ArticleWith great power…
One of the fundamental dynamics of any romantic relationship is this: Where responsibility is uncoupled from control, nothing but mischief can happen. In other words, if you want to exert control over...
View ArticleSecond Guessing — it’s like punching yourself in the face.
The notion that human beings must be of one mind is ridiculous. We are meaty chaotic systems. The fact that we even make decisions indicates that on several levels we compare and contrast different...
View ArticleStep one…
Someone asked me if I had any advice for people who might be just starting out on a path that included multiple adult partners. Who knew? So, I gave it a go. Treat people as you would want to be...
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